Today is my birthday, July 28th. My heart is smiling, thinking about my son’s last birthday and what God put in place to build a special memory of that day for my family and so much more. Like ripples from a stone being tossed into a pond, we might not get to see all the ripples that happen from a special event orchestrated by God… but it is a joy discovering some of those ripples. So far, I have seen two giant ripples – one for my family and one for the Heffernan family. I hope to learn from others about ripples I have yet to see…
My new book, "Anchor Moments: Hope, Healing, and Forgiveness" is coming April 11th at 11 am on Amazon on Kindle! The paperback version is available now!
Friends, I am happy to announce my first ever Anchor Moments book, Anchor Moments: Hope, Healing, and Forgiveness is being released on Amazon on April 11th at 11 am as a Kindle ebook and is available now as a paperbook!
Anchor Moments: Hope, Healing and Forgiveness is filled with compelling stories of love, faith, joy and resiliency, told along the journey toward a leap of faith -- with lessons in forgiveness that just may change your life!
Here is what the front cover will look like:
Quotes about the book from the back cover:
“Over the years, we can be hurt by different people and life events. We have a choice to carry those hurts with us in our hearts every day, or to drop the old bags of pain and start each day fresh and new.”
-- Gina La Benz
Anchor Moments: Hope, Healing and Forgiveness is “a beautiful and inspiring book on the art of forgiveness and the essential role forgiveness can play in building and maintaining a full and meaningful life of love, connectedness, and spiritual fulfillment.”
-- Dr. Mary M. Fallon
“This book will take you through stories of joy, sadness, trials, forgiveness, inspiration, how the power of an act of kindness can set someone ablaze to their calling... and that nothing is by accident.”
-- Darleen Santore (Coach Dar), Founder and CEO, Performance Meets Purpose Consulting.
Right now, the Kindle version of my book is available for pre-order, and today my paperback of my book is available for purchase! $1 from every book sold will go to benefit CeCe's Hope Center. (More about them in a future blog post!) Here is the direct link to my author page on Amazon where you can purchase my book:
The Kindle version currently is being offered at the low introductory price of only $5.49!
Thank you so much, Coach Dar, for writing the forward in my book, and a huge thanks also to my editors: Jeff La Benz, Nora Leuck, Dr. Mary M. Fallon, and Kitty Chappell.
Thank you to all my friends and family who helped me select the cover of my book and have encouraged me along my journey!
A giant thank you to everyone who has taken the time to read my blog, inspiring me to share these stories of faith.
And of course, thank you, God for your love and every blessing!
Girl Scouts made a difference in my life as a child and even more with my life as a Girl Scout leader and a mom. We touched so many lives with ripples that we may not always see...but last week I got to see a ripple...it was so big, when I went home that night I cried. It isn't your usual Girl Scout story...but it is one of great courage and strength to stand up for what is right even if it is scary.
Ah, Halloween! Such a fun time when adults and children have the chance to be someone or something else! Firefighter, super hero, witch or a ghost are just a few fun costumes you might see.
Last Halloween, I got the opportunity to wear a couple’s costume with my husband. We decided to go to a gala for a charity dressed in our costume. The gala was on the Saturday before Halloween and our attire was perfect for the gala. It was a masquerade ball and everyone would be dressed in ball gowns and suits and ties.
I was on the planning committee and at our last meeting, I asked the team if they would mind if instead of shopping for a gown, I came in a black suit, tie, and hat and my husband would do the same. Together we look like the Blues Brothers and they could use us to sell raffle tickets. I would donate the cost of buying a gown to the charity.
The team laughed and agreed that would work. My friend Cynthia was on the planning committee and let me borrow her son’s black suit jacket and her husband’s hat.
The night of the gala something happened that surprised me…
There are anchor moments in your life that change who you are and how you see the world. The summer between my junior and senior year of college, I had one of those anchor moments. I got the opportunity to apply for an international YMCA Camp Counselor program after a few summers of being a YMCA Camp Counselor. I didn’t know where I would be going since there are YMCA’s all over the world.
I ended up being accepted at a camp in Spain called English in Action. It was going to be great because I didn’t know how to speak Spanish but I didn’t need to know it. My job would be to help the children practice speaking English.
Two weeks before I was to leave for Spain, I found out that the camp no longer wanted American Counselors. The girls who went to the first session of camp were wild. Some of them even got pregnant so the camp director did not want any more American girls.
I was devastated! My family already paid for my plane ticket. It was my only cost to attend camp since my food and shelter would be paid by my service as a counselor, but the ticket cost $1,000. The coordinators told me they would try to see if they could find another placement for me.
Today I had a job interview. I prayed this morning in bed asking God to please give me a sign, if I am offered this position, if I should take it. I then lay quietly hoping to hear His voice or feel a nudging. After a few moments of silence, I got up, researched the company’s website, and got ready for the interview.
The interview was set for 11 am. When I opened the door of the building, I could hear laughter. I then was greeted by smiles from the volunteers at the front desk. I told them I had an appointment with Jan at 11. They asked me to wait for a moment while they contacted her. I could see other volunteers of all ages from teenagers to senior citizens busily stocking the shelves. People were coming and going with large boxes of food. The buzz in the room was so positive and friendly.
Last week, my friends and I were invited to go to a movie about human sex trafficking of minors at a special evening event at the Phoenix Zoo. Proceeds from that event would help one of my favorite non-profits, StreetlightUSA. I heard that Senator John McCain’s wife, Cindy McCain, would be there.
I wanted to attend with my friends who have been working with me to put on another event, Gala Night for StreetlightUSA. I also wanted to be there because it would be an honor to meet Cindy McCain. I admire her dedication to working on this issue for so many years.
But, alas, I couldn’t go because it was on the same night and time as a computer class I am taking at Chandler/Gilbert Community College. I was so disappointed. During class that night, as I was studying Microsoft Office applications, my friends were posting fun pictures of themselves at the zoo with Cindy McCain. I wished I could be there, too.
God could see into my heart, and He had a special surprise for me a few days later.
The theme of the 10th Annual YMCA Prayer Breakfast was Miracles -- and God showed up delivering a few to our planning committee!
The first miracle that appeared happened the day before the breakfast...
A week ago, after mass, we asked Father John Coleman out to lunch. During our meal, I told him about feeling God lead me to the Seize the Day Conference to raise the C (Christian) in YMCA last fall. I told him about writing about that journey on my Anchor Moments website. The feelings of God pulling me there and setting up great learning moments while along the journey were intense. I also saw signs to leave my part time position at the Y.
While looking for a new career with more pay and benefits, I have continued to lead the YMCA Interfaith Prayer Breakfast as a volunteer this year and soon it will be here. But I do not know what I am supposed to do next. I asked Father John to pray for me and to help me figure out how to hear God give me the next steps. Father John told me to ask God each day, “God please help me use the talents that you gave me today.” He told me I would know and would feel His answer.
I tried it and Father John was right……